Newlywed

It's
always a
good idea to

be ready to
pull down
the

shades
when newly
married.

***

What does a
newlywed think
of?

Depends.
Try each
other out a

little bit. You
don't know
until

you get married.
What do
I

think about? Sex.

Just Married

One forgets the
complexity of
the

occasion.
So this
is what it

must
be like
in a day's

work
for a
big time what-have-you.

The only missing
link, love
this,

is pictures. Many
of those
may

not exist.

***

I'm married and
I'm removing
attachments.

13 plays. Crying.
It made
the

tears
come. Pictures
missing. Everything else

went smooth. That's
it.

Butterflies (Second Thoughts?)

You can sort
of tell
what

it feels like
as you
are

about
to approach
the celebrant

in the dance
of marriage.
I

read
a sentence
on p. 325,

James
Joyce, *Finnegans
Wake*, NY, Viking,

1939, 1957.

Comither, ahorace, thou mighty man of valour, elderman 13
adaptive of Capel Ysnod, and tsay-fong tsei-foun a laun bricks- 14
number till I've fined you a faulter-in-law, to become your son- 15
to-be, gentlemens tealer, generalman seelord, gosse and bosse, 16
hunguest and horasa, jonjemsums both, in sailsmanship, szed the 17
head marines talebearer, then sayd the ships gospfather in the scat 18
story to the husband's capture and either you does or he musts 19
and this moment same, sayd he, so let laid pacts be being betving 20
ye, he sayd, by my main makeshift, he sayd, one fisk and one flesk, 21
as flat as, Aestmand Addmundson you, you're iron slides and so 22
hompety domp as Paddley Mac Namara here he's a hardy canooter, 23
for the two breasts of Banba are her soilers and her toilers, if thou 24
wilt serve Idyall as thou hast sayld.
--Finnegans Wake 2.3.325

***

Getting married in
five hours.
So,

how do you
feel? Pretty
good.

Butterflies, but the
feeling is
good.

Put it off
five years
real

life.
Big step.
Open book at

random.
Do the
deed.

Wedding Postponement?

We need to
postpone. Kill
me.

***

Minor
emergency. All
we can do

is enjoy these
things

Invitations

The 100/10 rule.
Please obey
and

invite as many
as we
like?

Prays that works.
RSVP. Ah!
See

a level of
deniability there!

***

Invite 100, ten
show up.
That's

what I did.
Invite 90.
Have

room for 40.
That's the
good

word
for the
day.

Wedding Planning

$10,000 - $20,000 seem
like a
lot

for a wedding?
Think again.

***

Getting married soon.
What's it
been

like?
It turns
out $10,000 worth.

Decorating,
good feng
shui, poseballs. all

all the steps,
create notecard,
do

what you're doing,
certain amount
private

time
choreographed, and
doing it ourselves

help from family
in formal
celebration